In Love With a Water Sign? Read This.
What works with one sign may not work with another. There is no truer example of this than when dealing with one of the water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces).
Loving someone born under a water sign can be particularly challenging,
as water signs often have intense feelings and deeply hidden personalities that only become accessible under the right circumstances.
If understanding water signs can be exhausting for others, just think of how they feel while doing the deep inner work to understand themselves!
However, with the following relationship gems, it’s possible to learn how to love a water sign.
Here are 5 qualities of loving water signs you better understand if you want the love you offer to be well received.
Go Deep.
It’s important to remember that water signs are sensitive, emotional, and extremely psychic. They often feel more deeply than other signs, and may express their emotions in a more surprising way, if they express them outwardly at all.
They are also reading you…
like all the time.
They don’t have the emotional capacity to waste their energy. It’s a survival mechanism.
Taking the time to understand who they really are beneath the surface is essential when it comes to showing a water sign how much you care. Acknowledge their emotions and be sure to provide a safe environment for them to share their feelings.
Sometimes they will just want listening from you, sometimes they will want solutions.
Just ask.
Leave Room for Growth.
Water signs tend to withdraw into their own thoughts and feelings when processing new experiences. This can make them appear aloof or detached.
It’s important to recognize when this is happening and be patient in allowing them to process their feelings and find words to express themselves. Patience and understanding during moments of adjustment will help your water partner to feel more secure and open to letting you in.
You can’t press them to share how they’re feeling with you when they’re still processing situations or circumstances.
But this doesn’t give them a total pass. Water signs often need their partner to tell them how they are coming across in the moment to gain a better perspective on their behavior.
Be Consistent.
Water signs often feel secure when they have structure in their lives. They thrive in a more predictable environment, so making the effort to create stability and security can go a long way in helping them to feel loved and supported.
Read The Room.
Wanna ‘WOW’ your water sign partner?
Pay attention to their body language.
Water signs often express themselves more through body language than through words, and have a high respect for someone who is intuitive with them.
Taking the time to read their physical expressions and nonverbal cues, especially when in public or in awkward situations, can deepen the intimacy between you and often will reveal more than their words in terms of how they truly feel.
Words can be so limiting for water signs, who vibrate at the level of subtle impressions, not in vocabulary.
Physical Touch.
Finally, it’s important to remember that water signs often need regular physical affection in order to feel loved and secure. This is based on the elemental need of water to be contained/safe.
Spending quality time being near your water sign partner, engaging in activities that require you to be in the same place at the same time means the world to them.
They don’t need you up under them, just close enough to be able to connect with if need be.
Water Sign Compatibility Challenges
If you are a water sign,
here are some blindspots to be aware of when relating to others:
Water Sign w/ Water Sign (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces):
The key to making this work is to be as transparent with your partner as possible. The imagination is so powerful it can shatter trust and ruin bonds even when there’s no grounds for defensiveness, suspicion, or rejection.
Someone has to take the lead. Why not you?
Water Sign w/ Fire Sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):
The life theme and greatest challenge of all water signs is learning how to take risks. Buckle your seatbelt with one of these thunderbolts as your partner.
Water Sign w/ Earth Sign (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn):
This dynamic has all the components you need to feel loved, safe, and secure.
What will you do when the relationship is not all about you?
Water Sign w/ Air Sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius):
The social energetic of the air signs will require some adjustment, but if you can mind your manners with their friends and tolerate engaging with the outside world a bit more than you’re usually comfortable,
this has all the makings of balancing out your need for solitude and privacy.
Follow these tips, watch out for these blindspots, and your relationship with your water sign can be stronger and more rewarding than ever.
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Dexter Kendrick is a psychic-medium, astrologer, and owner of Love 911 Tarot Psychic Hotline.
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