3 Ways to Know if Our Date Can F**k
Those of us who are still having sex would like a little sum’n, sum’n to show for our efforts at the end of the day when it comes to our mating dance and dating rituals. The shit can be exhausting.
Personally, I prefer sex before the actual date, but I digress…
While we’re jumping through all these politically correct hoops when all we’re really trying to do to is get laid, let me lay out 3 ways to quickly determine if they deserve that steak and lobster dinner, or should be getting chicken fingers and fries.
Do with this information what you will.
How They Walk
Our walk says so much about us in Chinese medicine. The spine is the first body part to develop in the embryo, and can show us how confident we are in ourselves.
Also, the hips and ass are doing their own thing too when we walk, and can tell us everything about the level of athleticism of our person of interest, muscle tone, heaviness of the cheeks, and how fertile they may be just by how that thing jiggles (this is true for men and women).
The ass cheeks are the “seat” of our power in Chinese medicine, so how a person’s body parts naturally move from the waist down is a great fortune telling tool for us.
Closeness and Proximity
While body heat is an essential nutrient when it comes to sex, shared warmth with another body will more easily and quickly create a cascade of automatic response in our bodies.
This is important for stimulating the “feed and breed” response of the parasympathetic nervous system, and it is automatic which means out of the other persons control once it’s turned on.
In other words, closeness can make you wet (or hard as it were).
That also means you don’t have all night to decide what you’re gonna do when the time comes to make a move. There’s a window of opportunity we’re talking about here.
When we need to know if our target (er, love interest) has what it takes to make our eyes roll back, the first advisor to consult is their body.
How do they respond when you approach, in a non-threatening way, their personal space?
Do they relax and let you explore when you touch them?
Or do they recoil?
This can be as simple as taking their hand, placing a hand on their back, or letting your leg touch theirs.
All of these messages are signs of where their body is when it comes to it’s comfort with another body. Most importantly, it will tell you what their body has to say about what it feels for you.
How They Dance
We can tell so much about a partner or a potential partner by the way they dance. Even if we’re not at a party, how do they move their body when music is playing?
Is it mostly upper body movements, like just hands and arms? This person may be more cerebral and verbal in the bedroom, enjoying you to tell them what you want and what you like.
Is it mostly hip gyration and thrusting? This person is likely very lusty, and experimental with their own body, so imagine what they would do to yours!
Just a head nod? Don’t be fooled, this person is reserved, and just needs a little coaching to let it out. You may have to take the lead with this one.
Be ready for a GOOD TIME.
Doesn’t like music at all?: RUN.
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Dexter Kendrick, D.Ac., L. Ac. is a licensed Doctor of Chinese Fertility Medicine, Herbalist, and Spirit worker in love with the natural world.
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